Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Reading in 2014

At the end of each year I like to go back and review my reading list for the year.  I was a little surprised and disappointed in myself at my reading choices during 2014, but in my defense, I *did* have a baby who kept me tired with her refusal to sleep through the night, which kept me from desiring to tackle challenging books.  :)

I read 82 books this year and many of those were current fiction.  I actually read several books from a list of what women born in the 1970s are reading.  That was interesting, especially when I considered the worldview of some of the authors.  I also got caught up reading several easy fiction books by two different authors, Elizabeth Berg and Liane Moriarty, because I enjoyed their characterization.

A friend asked me recently "what I read for--an escape, for self-help, a good mystery, ideas, words used just right, or what?"  That was a fun question to ponder.  I answered her with the following:
Sometimes it's a great story that takes me away. Sometimes it's for characterization so I can learn about people and what makes them tick. Sometimes it's to appreciate "masterful writing" (although, alas, that is rare and so hard to find). 
Other times, yes, it's about ideas. To be challenged to grow in some way. To step out of my comfort zone, to evaluate what I believe and why.
Lately it's more the former than the latter. I'm tired, and books are my escape.  I'm having a hard time finishing the "idea" books because when I find TIME to read, I need to just shut my brain off. 
I loved the question she posed, and would love to read other people's answers.  If you read, what do YOU read for?

And now, without further ado, here are my top ten books I read in 2014 in no particular order, chosen either because I particularly enjoyed them or because of the effect they had on my thoughts and/or life:

  • The Color of Water:  A Black Man's Tribute to His White Mother--I didn't write a review of this one because I knew it would be too long.  But I enjoyed it because I am a White mother to a Black boy.  I enjoyed it because I could really relate to it as his mother was born within ten years of my grandmother and the author was born within five years of my mother and I found the simultaneous stories of their lives and time periods fascinating.  I enjoyed it because it is a story of endurance, of overcoming, of strength of character and it was well-written.
  • To Kill a Mockingbird--This was my fourth time reading this classic, and I still loved it on this reading with my teenagers.  I didn't write a fresh review, but here is one I wrote a few years ago.
  • The Rosie Project--I thoroughly enjoyed this novel and am eagerly awaiting the release of the sequel.
  • Treasuring Christ When Your Hands Are Full--This was very good for me to read in this busy season of my life.  It actually would probably be a good one for me to read again next year!
  • Still Alice--This fictional novel about a women with early-onset Alzheimer's will likely stay with me for years to come.  Heart-wrenching.
  • Animal Farm--Reading and discussing this with my teens was memorable and elicited emotions like anger and trepidation.
  • What's It Like to be Married to Me?--I read and discussed this one with five dear friends and enjoyed it very much.  I find that it's best to constantly be focusing and working on my marriage, and this book had some positive effects on my marriage.
  • The Hundred and One Dalmations--This was my favorite read aloud with my little ones.  I had never read it before, and we enjoyed it tremendously.  What excellent writing!
  • The Glass Castle/Half Broke Horses--I'm cheating, I know I am, but I'm counting these two books as one. They are written by the same woman, and together they give a fuller picture of the author's family.  I am absolutely fascinated by this family's unique experiences.  I like to learn about people and examine what makes them tick, and this family is quite the case!
  • Black Baby White Hands--I haven't written my review of this one yet, but it has been especially powerful to me this year.  It is the memoir of a Black man who was adopted by a White family.  It hasn't been easy for me to read (emotionally), so I have set it aside several times over the six weeks it took me to read it.  The author is very insightful and philosophical and his prose is filled with figurative language.  I am still processing this one, but I think it's going to impact my thinking for years to come.
So now, as I'm planning what to read next year, do you have a recommendation for me?  
And do tell, what do YOU read for?

12 comments:

  1. I own Black Baby White Hands but have never read it. We actually heard him speak at a foster parent training years and years ago. I totally forgot about it and will need to pull it off the shelf and check it out. Thanks for the reminder. :)

    I will have to check out a few of those I haven't read. Thanks!

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    1. Oh, what a neat opportunity that would have been! It's really a good book with lots to ponder--I think you would appreciate it.

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  2. I read for an escape and for a good story. When you look at what I read in 2014 it pretty well shows that, lol! In 2014 I read Enders Game, a lot by Karen Kingsbury and Lynn Austin. Stories that I enjoyed and that took me away for a while. I would like to read more for other reasons in 2015, and I would like to work on broadening my horizons. Enders Game was new for me, but most of the rest of what I read fell pretty squarely in my usual fiction or christian fiction. I made a list of books that I wanted to read last year, but that list went out the window 13 days after the new year when we got our rather life changing news :) You did a better job of reading with a baby than I did this year! Perhaps I should revisit my list from last year.


    The problem is that it is very hard for me to make time to read, and when I do I just hate to waste my time on something that I don't enjoy, so I tend to stick with stories I know I will like!

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    1. How fun to have you talk back to me!!!! :) Yes, I understand that desire to use the tiny bit of time we carve out for reading in a way that we are sure to enjoy. I'm working on a list of books I'd like to read in the upcoming year--I think that will help me to be more purposeful in what I read.

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  3. I added a link to your list at my Saturday Review for book lists. Please feel free to come check out what others have been reading and enjoying this past year.
    http://www.semicolonblog.com/?p=23709

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    1. Great Sherry, that's fine! I look forward to getting some ideas for next year. . . :)

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  4. I read to better understand people. I want to experience what isn't me and know how others cope. I've read enough that the writing and story has to be good, though, not just characterization. And of course, sometimes it's just escape :)

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    1. Yay for conversation!! :) Love your comments. They made me think of these two quotes I have squirreled away:

      Reading may be an escape, but it is not escape from my own life and problems. It is escape from the narrow boundaries of being only me. Reading in some wonderful way helps me find out who I am. . .Reading enlarges my vision of the world; it helps me understand someone who is different from me. It makes me bigger on the inside. We tend to see the world from our own perspective; it is good to see it from the eyes of others. Good literature helps me understand who I am in relation to what others experience. --Gladys Hunt

      The wonderful thing about books is that they allow us to enter imaginatively into someone else's life. And when we do that, we learn to sympathize with other people. But the real surprise is that we also learn truths about ourselves, that somehow we hadn't been able to see before. --Katherine Peterson

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    2. Also, I am eagerly anticipating your response to Half Broke Horses. Now there was a book that falls under "better understand(ing) people, experiencing what isn't me and know how others cope." :)

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    3. Those are great quotes. I got Half Broke Horses from the library yesterday :)

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  5. Good question! I shall answer with a blog quote. :D

    And I am very curious about this book you've assigned for me this year....

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    1. I certainly DO hope you meant that you'll answer with a blog "POST"! :D

      They aren't the world's greatest books (and both shorter AND easier than Atlas Shrugged, grin), but I was fascinated by the characters, their motivations, their worldview. Wow!

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