Monday, April 27, 2015

Breaking the Learning Barrier

Breaking the Learning Barrier: Eradicating Add, ADHD, and DyslexiaBreaking the Learning Barrier: Eradicating Add, ADHD, and Dyslexia by Susan McCrossin

I thought this was very interesting and informative.  She wrote in such a way that I was able to understand a challenging and technical subject.  My attempt to summarize her main points will include lots of quotes as I borrowed this book from a friend and would like to have the quotes to refer back to in the future.

The premise of McCrossin's theories, and subsequent corrective Crossinology Brain Integration Technique, is that our brains can develop barriers due to stress or trauma that inhibit learning. "Certain types of emotional stress, especially early in life when the brain is still developing, can cause the amygdala (the brain's alarm system, which has the dual task of 'remembering' and alerting us to possible emotional/physical threats) to confuse real and imagined danger and make these alarm processes so readily triggered that normal learning is compromised" (3).  It's almost as if the brain is in a constant "flight or fight" mode and thus unable to retain new information.

"Scans have shown that, compared with individuals with normal brain activity, people with learning difficulties have decreased blood flow in areas of the brain responsible for specific tasks such as reading.  When the blood flow is restored to those parts of the brain through acupressure, the learning difficulties are corrected and the brain behaves normally.  BIT restores normal blood flow to information-processing and problem-solving circuitry in the brain" (12).

"When blockages exist in the brain's processing, information not only takes longer to process but some of it also 'evaporates' along the way.  When the blockages are cleared in the brain, information is able to transfer quickly and easily to auditory short-term memory, then to visual short-term memory, and finally to visual long-term memory without any stress or effort at all" (24).

"Learning difficulties tend to run in families, which, according to current scientific belief, is thought to mean they are genetic. . .(McCrossin's) theory--based on muscle testing thousands of clients--is that what is actually inherited is the emotional tendency to shut down part of the brain's functions if we are stressed at some point between birth and five years of age.  We are all subjected to various forms of stress as we grow up, stresses that cannot be avoided in even the most 'ideal' of families.  But people react differently to stressful events, and some shut down part of their brains' functions as an effective coping strategy.  This means the individuals don't have to deal with the stressful events at a time when they are, in fact, too young to put any kind of objective perspective on the situation. . .brain adaptations usually occur in response to a traumatic event before age five.  The brain shuts down the memory of a trauma in order to cope and function in life; such a response is an effective coping mechanism.  These adaptations cause neuronal pathways to become crossed at a functional, not a physical, level.  Once the pathways are normalized, the proper avenues for learning are opened up and made available" (27).

The corpus callosum (which connects the left and right hemispheres of the brain) is estimated to have approximately 200 to 500 million nerve fibers running between the two hemispheres.  Neurologically it functions much like a telephone exchange that allows a two-way flow of communication between the hemispheres.  Whenever the hemispheres are required to work together to produce an integrated function (for instance, in reading), that integration takes place in the corpus callosum. . .Learning difficulties result from the inability to access specific brain functions or the inability to effectively integrate them" (31).

"Crossinology's Brain Integration Technique addresses any deficiencies by restoring the necessary integration and timing of brain functions.  Treatment does not remove or change one's existing abilities; rather, it establishes connections that were previously disconnected and restores access to the functional areas of the brain" (36).

Crossinology's Brain Integration Technique uses kinesiology and acupressure methods and also incorporates the Acupuncture Meridian system, "which the Chinese said mapped the flow of energy throughout the body. . .and developed a method of manipulating the energy imbalances in the body" (62).

"The practitioner redistributes blood flow in the brain and reorganizes brain-wave patterns.  Pulse biofeedback, detected by the practitioner, indicates that this specific brain activity (activated by the specific acupressure holding) has been renormalized and that information is now flowing to the correct locations with the appropriate patterning or timing" (76).

The first step of treatment uses kinesiology, or muscle testing, for assessment.  "Treatment then deals with the brain's deep-level switching--the pathways that handle right/left, front/back, and top/bottom processing.  In deep-level switching problems, the brain becomes confused about the right and left hemispheres, which in turn create confusion in logic and gestalt processing.  Front/back switching results in difficulty with resolving issues from the past, and top/bottom switching causes difficulty with getting out of a purely emotional response in order to develop a rational response.  After switching pathways are addressed, treatment focuses on the degree of activation in the corpus callosum, so that the brain's two hemispheres can be used simultaneously" (77).

Results of BIT "include improved creativity, greater learning ability, enhanced behavioral attitudes, and better physical coordination" (7).

Other notes:
People with Gestalt dominance "have good physical coordination.  Gestalt functions control body awareness, balance, running, and orientation in space; therefore, a dominance of these brain functions tends to be manifested in good physical skills" (52).

Imprinting method with flash cards (This is used after a person has gone through the Brain Integration Technique as the brain is now ready to accept and process information it has previously been unable to store.):
"having the child look at a flash card, say aloud what is on it, trace the information with his finger, and take a 'picture' of the information by snapping his eyelids closed like the shutter of a camera.  The child is then asked to recall the math fact (or word) one hour, 24 hours, and a week after learning it.  If he recalls it successfully, the fact is in his memory for life" (15).

For more information, www.crossinology.com.

Saturday, April 25, 2015

Unwind, Unwholly, and UnSouled


Unwind (Unwind, #1)Unwind by Neal Shusterman

More dystopian fiction--I seem to be in a rut here.  But two friends have repeatedly recommended this series, so I thought I should check it out.

What if there was a huge war between pro-life and pro-choice groups and the eventual peace treaty/compromise provided a way for children to be "unwound" and their body parts used for transplants between the ages of 13-18?  This is Shusterman's premise, and his story of a few characters running to escape their fate.

I didn't love this book, but the characterization was good enough that I wanted to read #2 to see what happens to Lev, Connor, and Risa.


UnWholly (Unwind, #2)UnWholly by Neal Shusterman

I wasn't thrilled with the first installment in this series, but kept reading for the characterization and I'm glad I did!  Book two was significantly better than book one.

Shusterman introduces his book with "Wishing you a nail-biting, sleep-depriving, thought-provoking read!", and he delivered on all three accounts.  I love dystopian literature, it always makes me think.  A good dystopian writer can take a philosophy held by people in our current world and take it to its extreme consequence, leaving the reader shuddering at the possibilities.

A few quotes I enjoyed:
"The whole place is a petri dish of angst, generated by kids whose parents gave up on them, which is the worst kind of angst there is" (23).

Of the compilation of the parts of many people:  "'Eventually your body will learn the alliances it has to make with itself,' Kenny had said--as if Cam was a factory full of strike-prone workers, or worse, a clutch of slaves forced into unwanted labor" (56).

"The sad truth about humanity is that people believe what they're told.  Maybe not the first time, but by the hundredth time, the craziest of ideas just becomes a given" (86)

"With the failure of the public school system, the nation was overrun by teenagers out of work, out of school, and with nothing to do even before the war. . .One side claimed the ferals were created by the collapse of family values, while the other side claimed the ferals were a product of rigid beliefs that no longer met the world's needs.  Both sides were right.  Both sides were wrong--but it didn't matter when people were terrified to go into the streets at night from fear of their own kids" (123).

"Does a sick society get so used to its illness that it can't remember being well?  What if the memory is too dangerous for the people who like things the way they are?" (255)

UnSouled (Unwind, #3)UnSouled by Neal Shusterman

Number three in the Unwind series and I continued to enjoy it very much. The characterization of this series is really quite good, and I think the plot just keeps getting better as each new book unwraps another layer.

The pursuit of money becomes more important than the value of life and the harvesting of body parts leads to the creation of a "super human" when a scientist's discovery for good is taken over by those who have evil plans.

Shusterman challenges the reader to consider previously held views and inserts his perspectives in clever little phrases throughout the book such as:

"It never ceases to amaze Starkey how far society will go to protect the children it loves and to discard the ones it doesn't" (109).

"How can she not see that when you are defined, you lose the ability to define yourself?  In the end he will become that definition.  He will become a thing" (215).

I just downloaded the last two books onto my Kindle from the Wilbor (free ebook library) site and am hoping for a leisurely Sunday afternoon to see what happens to the characters I've come to know.

Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Raising Real Men



Raising Real Men: Surviving, Teaching and Appreciating BoysRaising Real Men: Surviving, Teaching and Appreciating Boys by Hal Young

I was pleasantly surprised by Raising Real Men by Hal and Melanie Young.  I've owned the book for almost two years, but just never felt like reading it.  I've read so many books about raising boys in the last 17ish years, and couldn't seem to get excited about reading another one.

But I actually think this is one of the better books about rearing boys that I've found.  It's easy to read, the writing is conversational in style, and they address both practical and philosophical points.  One of my favorite chapters was entitled "Who's in Charge Here" and was about leadership.  It highlighted both the struggles young men have with submitting to authority and the need for them to rise to servant leadership in a way that they can "carry the burden of leadership without creating a dictatorship of 'me'" (98) and I think I'm going to have Destry read this chapter.

As a believer in everyone pitching in to make the household run, I especially liked their admonition that "every job in the Air Force was meant to support the larger purpose" (191), so it isn't just Mom and the girls' job to take care of housework.  They further supported their point with I Samuel 30:24 and say "any service that advances the family's mission is worthwhile and needs to be valued" (192).  I think this is especially relevant as I've seen some families so concerned with making their boys be "men" (read "manly") that they relegate all household maintenance to the women and end up with lazy, inconsiderate slobs.

Now as my firstborn son approaches independent manhood (he'll be 18 in just four short months), I really got a lot out of the last couple chapters about launching arrows.  "This is why we work to raise real men.  There is a time to protect our sons and a time for them to start protecting others.  There is a time to teach and disciple and control the influences our sons face, then there is a time for them to instruct others and to meet those influences and conquer them" (230).  We're in this season.

I was convicted by Hal's admonition to Melanie "If you don't have time for devotions, you don't have time for school" (132) as I have been remiss this year in putting our Bible study time after academic studies.  I need to get my priorities back into shape.

A couple other quotes I liked:

"If he hasn't faced the trial yet, or he's in the midst of it--encourage him.  If he's been to the wars and is limping home wounded--comfort him.  Once the wounds are bound up, encourage him to rise and face the fight again" (54).

"God made men to be warriors, some with sword, some with the pen, all with the will to resist temptation and strive for righteousness" (78).

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I'm glad I finally pulled this one off the bookshelf and can cross it off my TBR Pile Challenge.  It was well worth reading, and a couple of the chapters were especially beneficial in this season.

Sunday, April 12, 2015

Involved in Working and Serving

Briana's dream job is coming to an end in less than a month.  She has been working in the state capitol for a representative during this legislative session, and she has been loving every minute of it.


Last week was "Homeschool Day at the Capitol" and our family got to go see Briana at her work, in "Briana's capitol", as the younger children call it.  She brought us into the house chambers and we got to see her desk, meet her boss, and meet several other representatives she interacts with daily.


While there, we also got a picture of our entire family with our local representative, who Briana inspired us all to help with his re-election this past year.


I am very proud of Briana for her work ethic, for setting this goal to get this clerking position and attaining it, and for the reputation she has developed with her co-workers.

I am also very proud of her for the way she has jumped in and contributed in ways beyond just doing her job.  The capitol workers sponsored a drive to raise supplies for a safehouse for victims of domestic abuse.  In her few hours at home, Briana made two quilts, one for a baby and one for a young child, to donate to this safehouse (I wish I had taken a picture of them, but I didn't think of it then).  She also volunteered to be in a choir which is performing at a memorial for a state representative this coming week.

It just pleases me so much to see her jumping in and getting involved, to see her doing more than the minimum, to see her doing what she can to help and serve others without any expectation of a reward or payment for herself.

She is also getting to know several other people, including these clerks with whom she got to experience a trip up into the very top tip of the capitol dome.  This was just one of many highlights of her experience, and I've loved watching her grow and spread her wings these past few months.

Friday, April 10, 2015

It's What You Do

What are you doing these days?  I decided to have fun with a meme I saw on Stephanie's blog (instead of writing the guest post I should be writing--because it's not due until April 15 and why would I do anything early?!).

AS FOR ME, I'M:

realizing Briana and Destry will be out on their own before I know it.  More and more often, we have just four children with us when we go places.  Wondering if we've made the best use of the time we've had.

checking the calendar multiple times a day.  April is always full of opportunities, and I have to keep checking what dates are available while deciding what all we can handle.

remembering why I'm doing what I do.  It's easy to get caught up in the day-in and day-out of homeschooling, but we had a Moms' Night Out meeting of homeschooling moms last week and I was reminded that it's all about pointing my children to their Savior and keeping their hearts.  Academics are important, I'm not saying they aren't, but they aren't the MOST important.

reading several books at once, as usual.  I'm reading Great Expectations with Destry for literature, Unwind on the recommendation of a couple friends, and trying to finish Raising Real Men.  We also have one week left on our book study of The Prodigal God.

anticipating homeschool conference season.  I'm a homeschool conference junkie!  Alan and I are going to one in Kansas City the end of this month, and then a good friend and I are going to the conference in Des Moines.  Two is always better than one!

watching Aryana learn something new each day.  She stands up in the middle of the floor, but has yet to take her first steps.  She'll be one next week!


trying to write in my subject journal at least 3-4 times a week.  A good friend shared her Bible study journal which is divided into subjects, and I couldn't resist pulling one together for myself.  I think it's the neatest idea, to study a subject off and on and build my understanding "line upon line, precept upon precept".

cooking has been scarce of late.  I have been using several freezer meals lately, but Briana and I just worked up a new menu plan and went grocery shopping.  Some tasty meals in our near future will include Cranberry Mushroom Brisket and Lamb Roast with Plum Sauce.  I'm actually ready to cook something yummy again, and a plan always makes me feel better.

eating at Bonefish Grill with my husband and our friends, the Knights, this weekend because we got coupons! Yummy!

looking at colleges.  Destry has visited UMKC (Kansas City, MO) and Drake University (Des Moines, IA) He still wants to check out the University of Iowa (Iowa City) and Indiana University (Indianapolis).  He's interested in music, music, music (what else?!).

Destry dominated the teen boy races last year, hat and all

Kiana's softball throw last year
planning our upcoming Homeschool Track and Field Day. It's always lots of fun for the kids and most of our local homeschool community participates, which makes it a fun end-of-the year wrap up.

Tyrell's race (he's to the right)

sharing my home.  Freezer cooking, hosting a party to welcome new friends, hosting the book study of The Prodigal God, hosting a planning meeting for the Track and Field Day.  I tell the kids to pick things up and they immediately ask "Who's coming over?"  That's what our home is for, right?  (and it does help keep things picked up!)

Thursday, April 9, 2015

The Handmaid's Tale

The Handmaid's TaleThe Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood

Wow, what a weird book!  I read it rather compulsively as the story and the narrator's voice sucked me in.  But the ending!  I'm so mad. . .

This is a dystopian novel, a genre I really enjoy.  They always freak me out a little bit, and make me wonder if I would notice my freedoms being taken away (hello! It's happening all around me!) as well as question whether I would be brave enough to stand up.

This book seems to be making a simultaneous point about both extreme feminism and extreme patriarchy.  I am fascinated by each of the characters, and would love to chat this one out with someone!



Saturday, April 4, 2015

Welcome New Friends

It was just over three years ago that we were the new homeschoolers in town.  We know what it's like to move to a place where we don't know anyone, and where our children, especially, have no friends.

So when I met a new homeschooling family with three boys ages 13, 11, and 8 and one almost-3-year-old girl, I could relate to the story she told of these last few months meeting younger homeschoolers with children 8 and under, but the difficulty in finding friends for her older two boys.  Several of our friends have boys these ages, so we decided to have a party and introduce our "old" friends to our "new" friends.  (Good excuse, right?!)

We negotiated a price for some pizzas from a local pizza place as life has been crazy and I needed to plan a menu, grocery shop, AND cook in order to make the food.  This time, we went with easy.  I include this detail to remind you that practicing hospitality doesn't have to be about going all out with delicacies.  Or about cleaning your house.
We picked up toys, swept the kitchen and dining room, and vacuumed the living room floor.  No kidding--that's all we did.

Anyway, the plan was to eat pizza, play a few minute-to-win-it games to "break the ice", and then let everyone break into their groups (adults, teens, young boys, young girls) to play games and visit.

The guests of honor, Matt and Tami, playing Face the Cookie in which you have one minute to move the sandwich cookie from your forehead into your mouth using only your facial muscles:
Our friends Aaron and Rachel:
And some other friends, Brian and Cheryl:
Cheryl won the adult round.

We also played Baby Blocker, in which you have one minute to balance a plate on your head, then build a tower out of five blocks and get it all to balance.

The younger children had a really hard time with this, but the teens and adults were able to do it more easily.
 Finally, we played the classic game which makes everyone laugh and laugh--Bite Me, in which you have one minute to pick up five sacks of varying heights (2", 4", 6", 8", and 10") with your mouth.  The only part of your body which can touch the floor is your feet.

This is the game the adults have a harder time with, but the kids find easy.  I'm not including the pictures of the adults who tried, although Alan and Matt both accomplished this game.  I think a 13-year-old boy was the final winner of this game as he completed the challenge in only 6 seconds.  Destry was right behind him with a 7-second time.


I can tell Tami is going to be a great friend to have, because when I shared the party idea with her, she asked if she could bring supplies for the kids to make little houses out of graham crackers and icing and some peeps and eggs to go inside. What a great and fun idea!

We ended up doing these right after supper, which was a perfect ice breaker for all the kids to get to know one another while working together on a project and before playing the Minute-to-Win-It games.




Even all the teenagers (3 girls and 4 boys ages 13-19) got in on the fun.


8 adults + 23 children + pizza + dessert craft + games + laughter = 
a night to remember and friendships made.