Thursday, March 13, 2014

Rasputin and the Romanovs

After I enjoyed Carrie's recommendation of  The Kitchen Boy, I knew I would have to read the other two books Robert Alexander wrote in this trilogy.


Rasputin's Daughter was merely "okay" in my opinion.  Rasputin was a character, for sure, and an unpleasant character at that, but I got tired of reading his daughter's ruminations, discoveries about her father's activities, and fear for his murder.  I think anyone who enjoys the first book in the series will have to read this book to get the full picture, but it was my least favorite of the three (that's what Alexander gets for setting such a high standard in the other two books--he raised my expectations and made me greedy).


But The Romanov Bride, on the other hand, was back to the late-night-inducing quality of The Kitchen Boy.  In addition to Alexander's admirable attention to historical detail (even to the point of quoting from the Grand Duchess's historical letters, diaries, and other documents), he successfully rounds out each of his characters.  Grand Duke Sergei is a thoroughly unlikable fellow, yet through his wife's eyes, the reader can't help feeling compassion for the circumstances that influenced the man he became.  Elisavyeta herself is a joy to get to know and watching her grow was my favorite part of this book.

As Alexander told the story of the aristocracy, the world war, and the Russian Revolution, he interspersed the tale of a poor Russian man, Pavel, who became an active leader in the revolutionary efforts after his wife and unborn child were unnecessarily killed.  Pavel's struggle with bitterness, resentment, and hatred were contrasted with the Duchess's forgiveness and compassion in such a way that Pavel himself was challenged.  I'll have to agree with the review on my book which states "Alexander once again masterfully combines the power of true history and riveting storytelling to bring this fascinating and legendary period to life."

I also truly enjoyed the way Alexander sprinkled commentary about this historical time period throughout the book with ruminations by the characters such as:
It was Aleksander II, as well, who had planned to end autocratic rule in Russia by introducing a European-syle constitution.  This would have long come to pass were it not for the revolutionaries, for just days before the constitution was to be released they had blown the Tsar apart. . .The revolutionaries had believed this death would spark a great revolution, but in fact it created not a single demonstration, only widespread mourning. . .And the new Tsar came to hate any kind of revolutionary or progressive thought. . .believed that the only way to deal with unrest was by force (75).

Russian peasants, I had come to learn in my years here, were a peculiar sort, one moment all politeness, bowing, and submissive, next angry and so violent, not afraid to kill.  But such were the shadows, the hangovers, of their recent serfdom, when these poor people had been traded as not much more than slaves.  Warm, loving of family and friends, and hardworking--I had found all this in my adopted people.  All that they lacked was a proper sense of self-worth and a literate, educated manner in which to express their frustrations.  Simply, they were still so afraid of their master's whip, for without education, without intelligent words, the only way they could do battle against that whip was to resort to sheer violence itself (259).

One moment there were a hundred souls standing in line, long-suffering folk who had never complained, just poor people in felt boots and foul coats, always submissive to master and Tsar.  The next moment every last one of them, right down to the old babushkas with their scarves tied round their heads, were fiery rebels!  The crowd burst to life, surging forward, breaking every window of the bread store and piling in, frantically grabbing all the loaves. . .and then everyone was on (the shop owner), kicking and beating him, ripping at clothing and limb.  He lived one more minute, no more.  Their fury surprised even me.  Like a lid finally blown off a boiling pot, the deep Russian instinct for revenge suddenly blew wide and could not be contained (248).

How could he have done that?  Toward what goal?  He had thought he would receive satisfaction from his revenge, but all that was delivered unto him was torment.  He had thought that he had killed to keep the Revolution rolling forward, so that the sins of their masters would never be repeated, but now he saw that the fury of upheaval was doomed only to repeat itself again and again (298).
I could share a great deal more as this book has many talking points, including the Orthodox religion of the Russian people.  I found it sad to read of the icon-worship, the misunderstanding of living a life for Christ.  One point I did appreciate was the Duchess's response to a prostitute's claim of being too far gone to turn to the Lord:   "God's image may become unclear, but, my child, it can never be entirely wiped away" (214).  What a great expression--I can't help but wonder if this is one of the quotes taken from her diaries.  We each are made in the image of God and until death, it is never too late to turn to God, regardless of what is in our past.

I'll stop going on about this book now, but if you enjoy a well-told story, rich characterization, and a well-researched peek into time past, I highly recommend this series.

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

I've Gone to Find Myself

Some seasons of life are complicated.  I think most of us would agree that being a teenager qualifies as one of those seasons.  For some reason, even as those of us past that age easily realize that figuring out who you are and what you are going to do with your life is an ongoing journey, some teenagers (probably those who have perfectionist tendencies) feel a burden to figure it all out and NOW.

My 16-year-old son has recently been sharing a quote he gets a kick out of mocking: 
"I've gone to find myself.  If I get back before I return, please keep me here."
This is irony at its finest as I'm striving for patience (and frequently failing) while walking with him through this season of his introspection and self-criticism. 

I love this quote Laura shared on her Outnumbered Mom blog and need to keep it for further reference and instruction:
“Unless introspection is accompanied…by an equal passion for the good life, it all too easily degenerates into a spineless, narcissistic fascination with our own sin and weakness.”
--W.H. Auden
There is some serious wisdom to ponder--and act upon--today.

Monday, March 10, 2014

What's Your Worldview?

What's Your Worldview?What's Your Worldview? by James N. Anderson
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

For what it is, I'm giving this book four stars.  This is a relatively quick overview of worldviews and I think something like it is much-needed today.  It's written in a "choose your own adventure" style, which I think works for this.  The reader is posed a series of questions and based on his or her answers, follows the path to read an explanation of his or her worldview.

I read through all the various choices because I was curious to see how each would be explained.  This is a simplistic overview compared to many I've read before (such as Assumptions That Affect Our Lives or The Universe Next Door or How Should We Then Live) but I think it is a good book to hand to a young teenager for a first exposure to worldview, or even through a person's 20s just to challenge someone to think about WHY they think what they think.

The author bias is from a christian worldview and he makes no effort to hide that he is trying to point the reader to that worldview as he asks questions to challenge the reader to re-evaluate choices that led them to their current worldview.  There was only one section I disagreed with, which was in the author's rebuttal of the worldview of Pelagianism (which I don't remember from any of the other books) and stated:  "the Bible teaches we are born in a sinful and spiritually dead state, unable to live good moral lives apart from divine grace" (83).  My understanding is that Pelagianism teaches we don't need the grace of God, but can "earn" heaven by living a good life.  Obviously, this teaching is untrue as 1) heaven is the GIFT of God and cannot be earned and 2) no one is able to live without sin--only Jesus did that--and all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.

My disagreement is with his statement that "the Bible teaches we are born in a sinful and spiritually dead state."  Ironically, in his description of the Christian worldview, I think he had a much better description:
"Tragically, however, we humans rebelled against our Creator and flouted his perfect moral laws.  By doing so, we spoiled God's creation, corrupted ourselves, and placed ourselves under his righteous judgment" (59).  
Each of us make this choice to rebel against our Creator and thus need the grace of God.  I wish he had stuck to this explanation in his rebuttal to Pelagianism as well since it is both more accurate and more consistent.

Otherwise, I think this is a very good book for an overview of worldviews and a handbook to help individuals examine why they believe what they believe. 

I received this book in return for my honest review from www.crossway.org/blog

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

Sons and Lovers

Sons and Lovers by D.H. Lawrence

It took me forever to finish this 600+ page book.  I had a hard time making myself pick it back up when time would necessitate my setting it down.


Yet it had some interesting themes, chiefly that of a mother's love for her sons.  This was not a natural of healthy love, however.  This was an obsessive love which killed her marriage (or perhaps was a result of her dead marriage--which came first?!) and handicapped her sons so that they were incapable of experiencing love or a healthy lasting relationship with a woman.  As it can be very easy for women to find their identity in their children--to live their entire lives in and for their children--I thought this was a great illustration of what can happen when women make an idol of family.  But I'm not sure I needed to read THIS. MANY. PAGES to get it! :)

I really liked the idea of the book, it just got rather drawn out for me.  I can understand why it's "a classic", however, as it's one of those that crawls into the mind and hangs around to be pondered later.

Tuesday, March 4, 2014

Clear Winter Nights

Clear Winter Nights:  A Journey Into Truth, Doubt, and What Comes After 
by Trevin Wax
"Theology in Story"

I received this book as a gift and was afraid it would be a little too. . .obvious. And it was. Yet I thought it was a worthwhile read for all that.

I think what I liked best about it was that it was real and honest. In coming to our own faith (rather than some handed-down faith) we all have to ask the tough questions and maybe even go through a period of doubt and I'm glad this author wasn't afraid to ask the tough questions, even if the storyline was sometimes cheesy and obvious.

I had two favorite messages from this book.

NUMBER ONE:
The reminder that "This is the Christian life. It's war" (107). Oh how easily we forget this. I think I want to put these two sentences in vinyl above my kitchen sink to help me remember! :)

NUMBER TWO:
I was intrigued at the four options the main character felt like he had as he struggled with his questions. 1) slipping into hypocrisy as he realized he could not live up to the ideal christian life, 2) giving up on faith all together, 3) turning religion into an impersonal intellectual exercise (again bc he couldn't live up to the ideal in his own mind) or 4), the really tough choice, really living his faith.

Okay, and there was one other undercurrent that resonated with me. Chris had a strong, older male mentor, his grandfather, who he could go to for wisdom. Such a sage man this character was! We all need an older mentor to help us through these times when we're asking the tough questions.

Glad I got to read this one, and even more glad that it was part of a "thank you gift" (along with a 12-pack of Pepsi, lol) from some new friends. I think they are starting to "get me". :D

Monday, March 3, 2014

February Freezer Cooking

I got behind in posting about our freezer cooking experiences (funny how a baby coming sort of takes over a person's life, isn't it?), but I'm even more thankful to have these meals in my freezer as I think about Baby coming.

Jenna was in charge of choosing recipes and doing the shopping this last month.  I have to admit I have been hoarding these meals for closer to Baby-time, so I don't have many ratings yet.  She chose:

--Tex Mex Chicken Casserole--This one was a 3.  I think it would have been better with more spices and then tucked into a tortilla (remembering for next time)
--Pizza Casserole--3
--Chunky Beef Stew--3
--Slow Cooker Cilantro Lime Chicken--3.5
--Pepperoni Stromboli  Everyone gave this a 5.  We'll definitely have to make these again.
--Crockpot Shredded Chicken --3.3
--Chicken Enchiladas--The recipe called for beef, but we used chicken and these were very good!  We rated them 4.5 (on a 1-5 scale)
--Taco Soup--4
1 lb hamburger 
4 cans diced tomatoes 
 1 can of corn 
1 can of pinto beans 
1 package of ranch seasoning 
1 package of taco seasoning 
Mix it all together and cook until warm.


We'll be cooking up some more meals this weekend and I'm the one doing the planning and shopping.  Guess I'd better get busy! :)

Sunday, March 2, 2014

What If?

Today I just keep asking myself "What if?"

What if we had said no?

What if we had declined the opportunity to raise Abigail's baby as our own because we didn't have the money sitting in our bank account or see where it would come from?

I asked myself this as my husband opened an envelope,anonymously slipped into his Bible at church services this morning, to find seven one-hundred-dollar bills.

We wondered if we should have said yes--we wondered if we were being reckless, irresponsible, foolish by saying yes.  If we had said no, we certainly would have missed out on the blessing of this baby.  Hopefully someone else would have stepped up and provided her with a home and a family.

But do you know what else we would have missed out on?  We would have missed out on watching the Lord provide.  Again and again--he provided a gift from previous church family, a bonus from Alan's place of employment, a gift from local friends, a gift from long-distance friends.  And now another gift.

Each piece of the puzzle grows me, makes me grateful to the Lord, inspires me to praise Him, provokes me to examine myself.

This time I'm asking myself "What if we had said no?"

And if we had said no, these people who have obeyed the Lord's prompting to give would also have been deprived of this opportunity to be a part of "caring for the orphans" by bringing this little girl home to a family who will love her.

Such a ripple effect. 
Say yes.